A question for pro choice people?

A couple years ago, I was faced with a very horrible choice. I had already given birth to 2 healthy babies, a son, and a daughter. I found myself pregnant again only a year and a half after I gave birth to my second daughter. 2 months into the pregnancy, I began to have a racing heartbeat, erratic, some chest pains. I went to my OB, and wound up getting 3 different opinions from 3 different doctors. They all wanted me to abort, saying, if I choose not to, the fetus, as they called it, and myself had a 50% chance to die. I am pro life, and decided that if the fetus were to die, I would go with it. I was terribly frightened, spent much of my time in a major hospital, lives on the line. As the baby grew, it became harder, the more blood, and weight, the more fast, and erratic my heart became. I had no idea I had heart problems before becoming pregnant, and to me, was the scariest thing I had ever went through. I could not care for my 2 other little ones, and they, especially my son, was so afraid, he kept asking me if I was going to leave him. The OB dr. I finally found to take me on had me sign papers saying if I died, it was my choice. I still felt I was fighting for a person in there. In fact, there is a picture of the child saved from abortion on my 360 profile, she's the little one. Isn't she beautiful, and very much a person? I had to take exp. meds. only tested on rats, the baby did have birth defects, and my heart got worse, to this day, we both have problems. My daughter had to wear a brace, her hips were deformed, better now. She has kidney problems, and still wears a diaper, hopefully will either outgrow it, or get meds for the problem. We went through a hellish expierience, then I see people go out and have abortions, just at a whim, because they don't want a baby. As a form of birth control, abd it makes me so angry after our expierience. I fought for that baby with everything I had. Who can look at her, and say she is NOT a person? My point, I guess, is to say these are people, can you imagine her being torn to pieces? I can't. How can you say this is not a person? I guess, I can understand a woman having an abortion in my shoes, but, just for nothing? Does anyone agree, or think I did the right thing? I am on birth control to ensure this will never happen again, but, please look at this child, and tell me, is she a human, worthy of life? And, what of all the others, that their mother's life was not at stake? How sad for these lost souls.....